• Cop Performs Subdrop Aftercare.

    31 Mar 2009 /  Uncategorized 13 Comments

    So me and Delilah have been experimenting with an unusual cure for subdrop-ness.   It’s hard for us to meet most weekends, so our hard scenes lately have been happening on a weekday night, and I always feel guilty when Delilah has to sit through her classes the next day depressed and zoned out.   But then she has this very cute way of making a guy want to hurt her.      And my dick usually overules my potential guilt.

    But a while ago we came across a very interesting method to “cure” subdropness (or at least minimize its effects).   We found it online somewhere (FetLife?) and tried it out.

    The cure is … Pain.

    The idea is a bit counter-intuitive, but basically what you do is repeat a new scene – albeit usually a smaller “lighter” scene.   I’ll usually just do a hard spanking, with a some nipple pinching.   For just a few minutes.

    I think the LOGIC behind it has to do with brain chemistry.   The explanation for sub-drop has to do with the massive amount of endorphins and other chemical releases that occur during a hard and long scene.    Endorphins, hormones, adrenaline – lots of brain chemicals pumping at full strength.   It’s really WHY we all do what we do.

    The next day, your “brain” is a bit empty.  Not TOTALLY empty, but a bit.   It usually needs some time to rebuild and restore those chemicals.   The more often you play, the faster your brain replenishes what’s missing, but sub-drop is pretty much a given.   I think that a lot of those chemicals require a FEW nights of sleep to totally restore balance.

    But lately we have been trying out doing a small morning scene, the morning after a heavy one.  And it SEEMS to help.   It’s not a cure, but performing a second “mini” scene seems to encourage the brain to squeeze out a few more chemicals that are hiding somewhere – and they tend to due the trick to keep away the soul-crushing depression.

    I usually try to make the “mini” scene HARD enough to get her heart pumping – I look for the normal visual queues that she is definitely alert – eyes, breathing, etc.  I always feel a bit guilty,  since normally when I do it, she has just woken up and is groggy and depressed and tired.   And is often NOT turned on.   Which normally would seem like a terribly selfish time to be whacking her ass (especially when her ass might already have bruises!).  But sometimes our jobs as a Dom is to make our subs do what they need to do.

    And it seems to work.

    Today however, we skipped the mini scene.   We both woke up too late.   And tired.  And cranky.

    Normally I drop Delilah off at the train, and then go to my kids house and get them to school.   And this morning I was running a few minutes late.  No mini-scene.  (I was late AND neglectful!).

    When we where in the car, my son called and wanted to know where I was.  This turned out to be a VERY bad time to answer the call, since I was also driving past a cop.   And talking on a cell phone without a hand-free kit is illegal here.

    What followed was a rather stressful half hour parked on the side of the road with a cop.  He wanted to see both of our drivers licenses, and seemed suspicious I had something illegal in my car.

    He asks, “Do you have anything dangerous in the car”?

    My mind flashes on various toys or other things that have been in my car from time to time.   “I don’t think so”.  (Bad answer – for future reference, the correct answer is “no”).

    He ran my license and found out I had a old unpaid ticket in the next town over (a ticket for a failure to get my car inspected! – That car took 5 inspections and over $3k to get it to pass! ) and said I couldn’t drive until I paid the ticket.

    Later he says “Why did you give me such a weird answer if I asked if you had anything illegal”.    And said – “You didn’t say illegal – you said dangerous!” .   I apparently need a lesson in how to talk to police officers.

    So he made Delilah drive my minivan away.  And she HATES my minivan and has always refused to drive it.

    I had to talk Delilah through how to turn on my turn signal and pull away.   She had missed her original train and we drove to the NEXT town over to drop her off for the train, so I could start driving again.(which was also the town where I had the ticket!).  The whole affair was an adrenaline rush of it’s own.   Both of us where stressed, and I felt a bit guilty for putting her in that position.

    I got a my kids to school and went and paid the outstanding ticket.   I didn’t want to drive around with a “suspended” license.  That’s when I found out my license was fine.  The cop was wrong.  (I get to have one of my tickets dismissed – which is very emotionally satisfying).

    About an hour later, Delilah messaged me from class and said that the whole cop affair seemed to help push her a bit out of sub-drop.  It appears ANY sort of adrenaline rush helps!

    Although I think I’m gonna go back to just spanking her.  Much less stressful for me.

    Moral of the story: So no more skipping morning care scenes!   (And – use my damn cellphone speaker phone!).

    Posted by MarkSwell @ 8:19 am

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