I completely agree with you about having trouble taking on a new persona. I tried it for a bit, but somehow Raven just didn’t work for me. It’s a useful blog and handle for sites, but other than that it’s not me. Me is me. The challenge comes not in how I perceive myself or the person I am, but rather what other’s might think of me and my situation. I am like you and don’t go parading around details of my sex life – because to be frank there are very few people I know that I would really care to know about their sex lives. I lead a healthy and normal like, sexually speaking, but it is outside perceived norms. Part of blogging and being out on the internet is hopefully to help adjust those norms one tiny step at a time.

Welcome to the fray and look forward to learning more about you.